Adventures In How To Die


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We’re doing things a little differently around here.

No scary , no generic, and certainly no sterile conversations about the end-of-life. Hell to the no. This is a morbidity-free zone!

Take everything you think you know, or have heard about death & dying – the stress, the confusion, the cost – and gently set it aside. Let’s rewrite the guidebook and look through a fresh lens. Dying to be Green helps to usher in love, light and joy – when it comes to end-of-life, there’s so much that’s possible. This is our promise to you!

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Meet Rai


Meet Rai

Hey there,
I’m Rai!

Cancer Thriver. Death Educator. End of Life Doula. Artist, Activist … and a proud mama to twenty-four plant babies!

I want to help you make friends with death, while still living a big joyous life!

Life is messy but death doesn’t have to be.

One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things

Henry Miller

If YOU’re DYING TO BE GREEN Or Just ‘Die Curious’

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